Does It Look Like I Care If You Don’t Like Me? 5 Ways To Get Over People Talking Behind Your Back.

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Since we know that there are always going to be people that do not like you then we must also learn to live for ourselves and not for other people. And I am going to tell you how to do just that:

Focus on You and Not On Them.48712612 - bullying

You have your own life to worry about. If you are too busy pursuing you own dreams then that means that you do not have time to pay attention to what other people are doing or what other people are saying about you.  Read my blog in on (I have more Important Things to worry about, which means I don’t have time to worry about you).

Keep Your Mouth Shut.

The more you are talking the more you are not listening and not taking in the things that are going on around you. There is no need to argue down people who do not like and who talk about you.  Because no matter what you say, they are just going to go behind your back and talk about you even more.  So why waste time, energy, or even breathe trying to tell people off or get people to like you.  If they have made up in their mind that they don’t like you, then there is little you can say to change their mind about it.

Let Your Haters Be Your Motivators

The best way to get back at those who hate you is to give those more to hate on.  Keep rising higher and keep doing better. Allow their negative 42814079 - concept of accusation guilty person girl.words to be the driving force behind your success.

Get Flattered.

The more you talk about me the more flattered I am, because that means I have distracted you from your life so much that you have thought enough to take time out of your busy schedule to talk about me. That must mean that I am doing something right.  Often times people talking about you is just them being jealous of you, so if someone wants to talk about you then let them that must mean they feel you are worth talking about.

Kill Them with Kindness

Yes that is right, I said it. No matter how many people talk about you or how many people hate you.  Always repay evil for good. If people don’t like you at least make it so that they respect you, so that they can never say that you did anything wrong to them.




About Sophia Reed (318 Articles)
I am a single mother of one, Christian, and Lover of Life. I have a Master's degree in marriage and family therapy, I am a National Certified Counselor, and I am currently a PhD candidate in Human Behavior. I love motivating others and encouraging all women to be beautiful from the inside and out. To get in contact with me, you can email me at

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