People talking behind your back is something that is always going to happen. It is just one of those things that happen in life. But since you cannot control other people you can control yourself, meaning that you can control the way to react to people talking behind your back.
5 Ways To Get Over People Talking Behind Your Back
Focus on You and Not On Them.
You have your own life to worry about. If you are too busy pursuing you own dreams then that means that you do not have time to pay attention to what other people are doing or what other people are saying about you. Read my blog in on (I have more Important Things to worry about, which means I don’t have time to worry about you). That is why you must focus on what you are doing and remained un-phased about what other people are saying about you. Do not even let what they are saying about you take up any more of your thoughts or energy. Instead, focus your energy on yourself and things that would really propel you forward. Give them something to really talk about by doing better in your life.
Keep Your Mouth Shut.
The more you are talking the more you are not listening and not taking in the things that are going on around you. There is no need to argue down people who do not like and who are talking behind your back. Because no matter what you say, they are just going to go behind your back and talk about you even more. So why waste time, energy, or even breathe trying to tell people off or get people to like you. If they have made up in their mind that they don’t like you, then there is little you can say to change their mind about it.
Let Your Haters Be Your Motivators
The best way to get back at those who hate you is to give those more to hate on. Keep rising higher and keep doing better. Allow their negative words to be the driving force behind your success.
The more you talk about me the more flattered I am, because that means I have distracted you from your life so much that you have thought enough to take time out of your busy schedule to talk about me. That must mean that I am doing something right. Often times people talking about you is just them being jealous of you (read my blog here on jealous people), so if someone wants to talk about you then let them that must mean they feel you are worth talking about.
Kill Them with Kindness
Yes that is right, I said it. No matter how many people talk about you or how many people hate you. Always repay evil for good. If people don’t like you at least make it so that they respect you, so that they can never say that you did anything wrong to them.