Make Him Chase You. Chasing Men Is a Sign Of A Desperate Woman.

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Make him chase you should be your motto as a single woman. And not in a game play sort of way, but the more he is pursuing you the more interested he is. But the more you are chase him the more desperate you look.

Single Christian women everywhere have all heard the Bible verse

He who finds a wife, finds a good thing  Proverbs 18:22.Make Him Chase You. Chasing Men Is a Sign Of A Desperate Woman.

Why is this relationship advice so hard to follow?  The best relationship advice that I could ever give single women, is that you need to make him chase you and do not chase him.  I do not know what is going on with all the desperate women these days, but it would seem as if the desperation is dripping off of them liked beads of sweat on a hot summer day.  Some women are so tired of being single, that they are willing to compromise their own pride and self-dignity just to say that they are in a relationship.

I know what the world tries to make you believe that men are in short supply.  But that is not truth.  And if single woman keep throwing themselves at a man, then a man will never see your value. Women, in case you did not know, you are supposed to be the prize, make him chase you.  He is suppose to find you.  A man that is ready to get married will be looking for a wife, and if you are the woman that he is looking for then he is going to find you.  You should not have to chase him down, convince him of your worth, cook and clean his house, in order for him to realize he wants to be with you.  He should want to do that on his own.

It would seem that men would have us thinking the other way around.  It would seem that women are afraid to walk ways from situations that are obviously jacked up.  Women, you do not need a man, you need a GOOD man.  I do not care how great the sex is, get a hobby to occupy your time and keep it moving.  Sex can only take up so many hours (if that) in a day.  For the rest of the day you need to actually be with a man who wants to be with you.

Why would you want to sit and play someone’s “wife” when he is not willing to make you his wife?  All he is doing is buying time until the “real” one comes along (check out my blog on why men chooses the other woman).  A man will let you cook for him, clean for him, and tell you that he cares.  But actions speak louder than words (Check out my blog on your word is your bond) ! He should be willing to wife you because he sees the value in you, and the thought of losing you is devastating to him.  No convincing on your part is needed.

Chasing Men Is a Sign Of A Desperate Woman. Make Him Chase YouSingle women out there, if you feel you have no options for a man right now.  That does not mean you have to lose all of your senses and go chasing after every man you see. You can be single and happy (click my blog here).  So drop the desperate woman act, it is a turn off.  If when you first met a man and within the first week he told you that he ready to get married, impregnate  you with his 5 kids, meet your family, and pulled out a wedding ring;  you would more than likely bolt to the nearest police station to get a restraining order.  So why do women feel within the first 10 minutes of meeting man you have to be coupled up.

The best relationship advice that I can give  is to allow yourself to get to know the person, and figure out whether you really like them.  I get that you want to get married, but you should be the one who determines if you like HIM, if he fits into YOUR life and your goals, and if you see yourself spending the rest of your life with him.

I get that you are tired of being single.  I get that you are single and lonely and you don’t want to stay single for the rest of your life.  I get that!

Get off of the idea of being his future wife, and see if  he would make a good husband. (Click To Tweet). 

Stop being so thirsty!  Sometimes, when you do this, you find out that the man your chasing, really isn’t a good fit for you at all.  It could also be the strength and independence that draws the man to you.  Not the “ready to get married” sign hanging around your neck.  I have come to find that men want to get married just as much as we do.  But they do not want to be forced into it.  And that is exactly what chasing does.  So stop chasing a man, make him chase you.

He who finds a wife, finds a good thing Proverbs 18:22.

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