So many women rather be in any relationship than a good relationship. As a result they find themselves being in an unhappy situation with a man. The woman is afraid to leave the man because that would leave them single. Other woman stay in what they perceive to be a relationship, when in fact they are just being used and abused by the man that they are supposedly in a relationship with.
Here are some clear indictors that a man is not serious about you and you need to move on:
He has never officially said that you are in a relationship.
I do not care if you talk on the phone every day, see each other each night, or even if he takes you places. If he has not officially said that you are his woman and he is your man, then you are not his woman. In a relationship, when a man is ready to make things official with you, he will have that talk and let you know that things are official. If you are unsure, pay attention to how he introduces you. If you introduces you as his woman or his girlfriend or he introduces himself to your people as your boyfriend, then that is also his way of making if official. If that talk has never came then you are just playing house with a man that is not really yours.
You Have Never Met Any of His Family or Friends
If you are just dating for a week, then of course you are not going to meet any of his family or friends. But if you have been dating for a year and you have never met his mom, his best friend, or any of the people that are close to him, then that means he is not serious about you. He does not want to introduce you to these people because when he dumps you, he does not want his mother and his friends to ask were you went.
He Never Takes You Anywhere
If your relationship consist of you coming to his house or him coming to your house then this is not a relationship. This is just “chilling” with each other. During these “chill” moments he may ask you to clean his house or cook him some food. He is fishing for a maid not a girlfriend. In a real relationship you go places with each other, go on dates, or go on vacations. If you are not doing any of that, then you are not in a relationship.
He Only Calls You for Sex
This should be a no brainer, but it is not for many people. If he is only calling you to come lay in his bed that is not a relationship, that is a booty call. Sex is not a relationship and you cannot make sex into a relationship. Another indicator is that if after you have sex, he leaves your house or he kicks you out of his house. If he does not want to go to sleep and cuddle with you but wants you to leave right way, this is a clear indicator that you are not in a relationship. You are just sex.
He Does not Claim You On Social Media
Say what you want, but social media has become such a big outlet for people to profess that they are in a relationship. Big indicators that you are not in a relationship with a person is look on their social media page. If you are not friends with them on social media and he keeps denying your friend request. That is a big red flag. There may be some other woman that is on his page that he does not want you to see. Other indicators is him not wanting to change his relationship status or him NEVER putting up a picture of the both of you on his page. If he is actively keep you away from his social media page, then you should be worried. Case a point I dated someone that told me he did not have a Facebook. He lied about his last name but I got smart and decided to search him by his phone and email. I found out that he had a Facebook AND the reason why he lied is because his profile picture was of him and his fiancé. In the status it stated that he was engaged. You get the point, she was in a relationship with him it was apparent and he was trying to be a dog and date other people without her knowing.