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Why Men Love Bitches and Why Men Marry Bitches Book Review

Bitch (noun): A woman who won’t bang her head against the wall obsessing over someone else’s opinion – be it a man or anyone else in her life. She understands that if someone does not approve of her, it’s just one person’s opinion; therefore, it’s of no real importance. She doesn’t try to live up to anyone else’s standards – only her own. Because of this, she relates to a man very differently.”

Sherry Argov, Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl – A Woman’s Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship

Disregard the foul language in the title.  But I really love this book and I actually recommend each woman should read it.  Do not be deceived by the title, the book is not about a woman acting all mean and psychotic toward men to get attention. It is actually about the opposite.

Anyone who knows me and follows my blog knows I am in strong dislike of women who conform to the ways of the world just to please a man.  As the book asserts, and I believe is true, conforming to what you think a man wants you to be can actually drive him away from you.

Many women I know have this misconception they must give up their own opinion, say yes to everything that their man wants, have sex within the first few dates, and a whole slew of myths women have convinced themselves of to keep a man.  The end results of them following these myths is that they end up being single, heart broken, and with losers again and again and again and they do not know why.  With this book it gives out a simple reason why these types of bad relationships happen to women that are content with being a doormat.

The reason why I love this book is because it explains one of the most basic concepts about relationships.  Men love the chase.  They are like predators and are attracted to a women they feel is the most hard to get and not a women that every man has ran up in and through.

It gives you a step by step guide on how to become that women.  Some of the tips are not sleeping with a man too soon, not being too available and running to a mans house every time he tells you to jump, how not to become a permanent fixture in his bed which keeps him from taking you out on date, and how to spot the men who only want to have sex with you and throw you away.

In case some women do not know, women hold the key to the relationships.  Many women relinquish their control by forgetting that a man who really likes you will conform to what you want them to be, provided that you require it.

This book encourages women to take back control and not forget their self in relationships.

The reason why I like this book so much it because it is understandable to all women. The language of the book is very funny and the author inserts her personality and sarcasm throughout the book, so it is far from boring.  It is an easy ready, and I think I finished it within one day.  I enjoyed this book so much I went out and got the part two, which is “Why Men Marry Bitches”
The second book is just a continuation of the first with more tips.  Its focus is more about getting the ring through the way you behave and pointing out certain women behaviors that may be
keeping you from getting married.

Just to give you an idea of the environment of the book, here are a few of my favorite quotes:

My Favorite Quotes From Why Men Marry Bitches: 

“In romance, there’s nothing more attractive to a man than a woman who has dignity and pride in who she is.”

“It is better to be disliked for being who you are than to be loved for who you are not.”

“There’s nothing more prized to a man than something he had to wait for, work for, or struggle a little bit to get.”

“He doesn’t marry a woman who is perfect. He marries the woman who is interesting.”

“In romance, there’s nothing more attractive to a man than a woman who has dignity and pride in who she is.”

My Favorite Quotes From Why Men Love Bitches 

“He must feel that you choose to be with him, not that you need to be with him.”

“Truly powerful people don’t explain why they want respect. They simply don’t engage someone who doesn’t give it to them.”

“When you meet someone who is truly great, he makes you believe you can be great, too. This is the kind of relationship you want, and it’s the only kind of relationship worth having.”

“When you live life with him or without him, that is when he will accept and value you for who you are.”

“Before sex, a man isn’t thinking clearly and a woman is thinking clearly. After sex, it reverses. The man is thinking clearly and a woman isn’t.”

Out of all the books I would recommend for women, these two are actually number one on my list.  Every women that has read this book based off my recommendation has been changed and has come out with a new look how they approach their relationships.

 

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About Sophia Reed (295 Articles)
I am a single mother of one, Christian, and Lover of Life. I have a Master's degree in marriage and family therapy, I am a National Certified Counselor, and I am currently a PhD candidate in Human Behavior. I love motivating others and encouraging all women to be beautiful from the inside and out. To get in contact with me, you can email me at sophiareedsbook@gmail.com

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