The Sherry Argov books are the two of the best self-help books for women that I have ever read.  For both single women and women who are trying to get married. The book Why Men Love B*tches is more geared toward single dating women and Why Men Marry B*tches are for those women who are after the ring.   If you can get over the foul language in the book title, I would love to explain to you why these books are a must-have for every woman. (Also click my blog here for other suggested books for single women)

First, let us start with the definition of what a B*tch actually is so that there is no confusion.

“B*tch (noun): A woman who won’t bang her head against the wall obsessing over someone else’s opinion – be it a man or anyone else in her life. She understands that if someone does not approve of her, it’s just one person’s opinion; therefore, it’s of no real importance. She doesn’t try to live up to anyone else’s standards – only her own. Because of this, she relates to a man very differently.”

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Do not be deceived by the title, the book is not about a woman acting all mean and psychotic toward men to get attention. It is actually about the opposite. And if you are a reader of my blog then it should come to no surprise to you on why I support these two books. Never will I co-sign a woman chasing a man or dumbing themselves down for a man. NEVER.

I strongly dislike the idea of women conforming and bending over backward just to please a man.  As the book says and what I believe to be true is, conforming to what you think a man wants actually drives him away from you.

Many women I know have this misconception they must give up their own opinion, say yes to everything that their man wants, have sex within the first few dates, and a whole slew of myths women have convinced themselves of to keep a man.  The end result is that they end up being single, heartbroken, and with losers again and again and again and wondering where it all went wrong.

This book explains one of the most basic concepts about relationships that women in this day and age seem to be missing.  Men love the chase.  They are like predators and are attracted to women they feel are the hardest to get and not women that every man has ran up in and through.

It gives you a step by step guide on how to become that woman.  Some of the tips are not sleeping with a man too soon, not being too available and running to a man’s house every time he tells you to jump, how not to become a permanent fixture in his bed which keeps him from taking you out on date, and how to spot the men who only want to have sex with you and throw you away.

Some women do not know that you as women hold the key to the relationships. BUT SO

“Many women relinquish control by forgetting that a man who really likes you will be what you need them to be if you require it. “

The Sherry Argov books encourage women to take back control and not forget themselves in a relationship. The language of the book is very funny and the author inserts her personality and sarcasm throughout the book, so it is far from boring.  It is an easy ready, and I think I finished the first book Why Men Love B*tches Within A day. That is when I went out and got the second book Why Men Marry B*tches because I could not get enough.

My Favorite Quotes From Why Men Love B*tches 

• “He must feel that you choose to be with him, not that you need to be with him.”
• “Truly powerful people don’t explain why they want respect. They simply don’t engage someone who doesn’t give it to them.”
• “When you meet someone who is truly great, he makes you believe you can be great, too. This is the kind of relationship you want, and it’s the only kind of relationship worth having.”
• “When you live life with him or without him, that is when he will accept and value you for who you are.”
• “Before sex, a man isn’t thinking clearly and a woman is thinking clearly. After sex, it reverses. The man is thinking clearly and a woman isn’t.”

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The second book is just a continuation of the first with more tips.  Its focus is more on getting the ring through the way you behave and pointing out certain women’s behaviors that may be keeping you from getting married. If you are in a situation where you cannot get your man to commit, then this is the book for you.

For example, my Favorite Quotes From Why Men Marry Bitches: 

• “In romance, there’s nothing more attractive to a man than a woman who has dignity and pride in who she is.”
• “It is better to be disliked for being who you are than to be loved for who you are not.”
• “There’s nothing more prized to a man than something he had to wait for, work for, or struggle a little bit to get.”
• “He doesn’t marry a woman who is perfect. He marries the woman who is interesting.”
• “In romance, there’s nothing more attractive to a man than a woman who has dignity and pride in who she is.”

These are all words to live by and should give you an example of how awesome and funny this book is as well as the no-nonsense advice it has to offer. I think all woman should read both of them. Every woman that has read this book based on my recommendation has been changed and has come out with a new look at how they approach their relationships. You will not be disappointed.

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