God where is my Boaz? How To Tell

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Christian Relationship Boaz

Have you ever wondered God where is my Boaz? Where I am here to tell you how to spot the real from the fake.

Boaz will show you what a good man is. But the key about Ruth is that she never asked God where is my Boaz? Boaz just came to her at the right time.  Ruth has so many hidden messages that all single Christian women can learn from. She is a reminder that there are good guys out there and you won’t have to beg God to bring your Boaz or ask God where is my Boaz. You will just trust that Boaz  will find you.

There are good men that still exists but there are also some bad ones too.  They are what I like to call the counterfeits.  If you are waiting for Boaz, then it is important for you to recognize the counterfeit. Once you recognize a good man and what makes up a good man, then you are less likely to fall for a bad one other wise known as the counterfeit.

Let me explain some characteristics of Boaz ( a good man) versus the counterfeit (the one who pretends to be a good man, but isn’t).God where is my Boaz?

Boaz– is the type of man that sees a woman he likes. His way of proving it, is to see where she is need, make provisions for her, and help her in any way he can without expecting anything in return.

Counterfeit– The counterfeit does nothing for you. In fact you are lucky if you can even get him to take you out on a date. The only thing the counterfeit wants to do is have sex with you or get you drunk and have sex with you. If you do not want to engage in sex with the counterfeit, he makes you feel like your expectations are too high.

Boaz– The main reason why he respects Ruth is because she is a hard worker. She has good values and has left her home land to take care of her mother and law. She has found God and is willing to live a God centered life.

Counterfeit– The counterfeit does like a woman who works. In fact he wants the woman take care of him with her hard earned money. If he sees that the woman wants to believe in God, he too will fake the funk and pretend that he believes in God. But as soon as the women tries to live in a Godly way (such as no sex before marriage or have morals), the counterfeit tries to convince her that her morals are outdated and tries to get her to bend on what she believes.

Boaz– He wants his woman to be respected. When Ruth came to the threshing floor, he made her leave before the sun rose so that no one would think she had done anything inappropriate.

Counterfeit– Wants you to come over late into the night. Has sex with you and kicks you out when he’s done. He prefers that you do not spend the night. If you do, then he is sure to wake you up early in the morning and will tell you to leave.

Boaz– He is a man of his word. Once he told Ruth he was going to do something he did not rest until it was done.

Counterfeit– He is a liar. He lies about any and everything, just because he can.

Boaz– A well respected man among everyone. A hard worker and is responsible with all that he owns.

Counterfeit– Has no job, no car, and prefers to sit in his woman’s house all day using up everything she has worked hard for.


Now that you have a full painted picture do you see how the Boaz is different from the counterfeit? No matter how hard you try you simply cannot make a counterfeit into a Boaz.

Women can sometimes get so caught up in finding a man that instead of waiting for a Boaz they settle for a counterfeit.  A counterfeit is fake and he will try to mascaraed around as the real thing.” (click here to tweet this quote)

But single ladies, we can change this.  You have to be able to tell the real from the fake. You must be able to turn away the counterfeits in order to get to your Boaz. And like Ruth from the Bible it may mean you have to go into the field, work hard, be focused on what you need for you and your household. This may mean that your focus has to be taken off finding a man. So the next time that you are asking God Where is my Boaz. You have to ask yourself are you being a Ruth and are you ready for a Boaz.  You also have to make sure that you are not trying to make a counterfeit into a Boaz. A good man is not hard to find but the mistake is that you are trying to find him instead of letting him find you.  He who finds a wife finds a good thing, not she who chases a husband (read my blog here for more on why you shouldn’t chase a man).  Find yourself, first.  stop asking God Where is my Boaz and know that when you are focused on you, that is when Boaz will find you.

God where is my Boaz?