Thank you very much for all these tips. It’s really encouraging.

I’m a 28 year old woman and my son just turned 15months. When i fall pregnant the father of my child left me for another woman ( I was only few weeks pregnant when he left me) 3months later he came back asking for forgiveness, telling me how he wanted to work things out, and how he wanted to be part of his child’s life. I forgave him, took him back but things were not good at all. I could see he was just with me for the sake of the pregnancy.

6 months after my son was born he then told he want out of the relationship. He left me, my son was only 6 months then. That was the hardest time of my life, Got depressed, asked myself questions, blamed myself for taking him back, it was really bad coz i really loved me and wanted us to work things out.

It’s been 8 months now ever since the break up and i have been having a hard time letting go coz he keeps on texting me every single day, asking about the child. I don’t have a problem updating him and allowing him to see his child, the only problem i have is he want us to communicate daily and that is unnecessary. The problem is he knows i’m still in love with him and he’s been using that against me. He has moved on now with another woman, but he denies that he’s in a relationship and he keeps on giving me false hope. He has really taken so much from me.

I’ve been having a hard time letting go but after reading this i really feel so much better. I’m ready to get up and soldier on. It’s his loss, I deserve better and i’m worthy. Thank you very much for all these tips.