Are You Ready To Get Married? Find Out Now With These 5 Reasons.

May 10, 2017 // 0 Comments

Just because you are single and you want to get married does not mean that you are ready for marriage. You can read a past blog post here on why I am not ready for marriage, but the real question that brought you to this blog post is that you want to know are you ready to get married. Therefore, I am here to answer that question for you. Waiting to get married and being ready for marriage are two different things.  The last thing you want to do is be a dysfunctional person and bring all of your crazy baggage into a marriage, which will not be help for you or the person you want to be in a [...]

5 Conversations You Should Be Having Before You Get Engaged.

March 15, 2017 // 0 Comments

When it comes to engagements it is not like the movies, or the Bachelor, where a man just asks a woman to marry him and it is a complete and utter surprise to the woman. Granted you may not know when a man will propose or how he will propose, but you should have an indication that a proposal is where you relationship is headed. So here are 5 conversations you should have before you get engaged. Do you see this relationship moving toward an engagement It is crazy to me how many people date for an extended period of time and do not even know if their relationship will lead to an engagement. I [...]

5 Ways To Celebrate Valentine’s Day In a Way That He Will Love

February 2, 2017 // 6 Comments

Valentines Day’s is a day to celebrate your relationship and how much you love one another. Which is why I always opt for a romantic Valentine’s Day over just splurging and getting my man a Rolex or a really expensive gift that can be reserved for his birthday or Christmas.  It can be hard to try to figure out what to do for your man, boyfriend, or husband for Valentine ’s Day.  Sometimes we get busy, often times we have to work the next day. That is why I have come up with these easy ways to celebrate Valentine’s day with the man of your life that he is sure to love. Breakfast A [...]

The Difference Between a Wife A Wifey is that without the Ring the Wifey Will Never Know The Conviction of a Wife

June 23, 2016 // 6 Comments

There are so many women in relationships calling themselves a wifey. To give you a lose definition of what a wifey is. It is a woman that is in a serious relationship with a man. The relationship is so serious that the man considers her to be wife material, but she is not his wife because they are not married.  On the outside they appear to be married.  They may live together or have children together, but they are not legally married. I know what you may be thinking. What is the difference? As long as a man treats you good, what difference does a title make? I am glad you asked me that, [...]

Marriage Is Hard Work! Reasons Why Marriages Fail and What You Can Do About It

June 20, 2016 // 16 Comments

Marriage is hard. I know that everyone always says that but, I mean really, it is hard work.  You may be wondering how I know this since I am not married, well let me tell you.  I have a Master’s in marriage and family therapy, and at one point I was counseling married couples to fulfill a requirement of my degree.  Can you imagine a non-married, at the time 20 something year old women, counseling married people about their problems? Well I did, and I like to think that I was very good at it. Because I was not married I was able to look at each couples problems with an objective eye.  [...]

Can A Married Man Ever Fall In Love With His Mistress?

June 15, 2016 // 29 Comments

This blog is a request that by a friend of mine. I decided to do it because I think it raises an interesting question that many women face. If a women is having an affair with a married man, is there ever a time in which it can be more than an affair and turn into love? To answer this question I think we must define love. The definition of love can be very subjective depending on what you consider love to be. Since I am writing this, I am going to tell you my definition of love.  I feel when you truly love someone, then it is really one of those most unselfish things you can do.  So when a [...]

Dating Versus Courtship. Which One is Right?

April 28, 2016 // 0 Comments

Among the Christian single community, there is a lingering debate as to whether dating is wrong and courting is correct.  If you are not familiar with courting, it is typically seen as two people “dating” or getting to know one another for the SOLE purpose of getting married. I personally do not see anything wrong with either one.  I have heard many courting stories of Christian women stating that this is the way they meant their husband.  But I will be honest and say that I do not believe that courting is for everyone.  Although I am not actively dating anyone now, if someone ask me [...]

How To Find Someone That Is Equally Yoked With You.

April 27, 2016 // 2 Comments

What is the definition of being equally yoked verses unequally yoked as it pertains to relationships?  I will give you my definition of each and then we can go from there. Equally yoked- is the formation of a relationship between two people that have similar things to offer each other and balance each other out.  Unequally yoked- are relationships in which one person is giving more or being more than the other person.  Leaving the relationship unbalanced and those within the relationship are left unhappy.  An unequally yoked relationship typical stems from someone who does not want to be [...]

Marriage is Made Up Of People Who Have Emotional Baggage.

April 23, 2016 // 4 Comments

How many of us single people imagine that when we get married it would be the perfection that we have always longed for. All the depression and sadness that we felt as a single person will magically disappear, and we will be made whole again once we walked down the aisle.  Sounds a bit dramatic but this is how so many of us think when it comes to marriage.   I used to think this way when it comes to marriage. Through my years and through my experiences, I have learned a valuable lesson, and that is that nothing or no one is perfect no matter how much of a perfect person they appear to [...]

The Wait Book Review By Megan Good and DeVon Franklin.

February 9, 2016 // 3 Comments

The Wait is a book that I pre-ordered and could not wait to read.  I am a big fan of both Megan Good and Devon Franklin.  When reading the book I say with much regret that I was a little disappointed.  It is a good book do not get me wrong, but I think that it could have been a whole lot better.  Let’s start with the pros of the book. It gives positive and uplifting advice. It talks about what “The wait” is and how you can embark on it. The book is good for you if: You are new to your spiritual walk. Are just starting celibacy. Need a renewed strength to keep on your no-sex journey [...]