For Singles

5 First Date Mistakes You Could Be Making. First Date Tips For Women.

May 1, 2017 // 1 Comment

First dates are important and making first date mistakes can put you out of the running for a second date (you can click here to see other first date mistakes). Common first date mistakes for women, include that sometimes women do not know how to behave on a first date.  I am going to give you first date tips by telling you what you are doing wrong (you can also check out my blog on how to date properly). So here are 5 first date mistakes you could be making. Being Too Desperate I get that you are happy to be going on a date and that you want to have a boyfriend and get married, but do not [...]

Why Am I Still Single? Helpful Advice From a Relationship Expert

April 3, 2017 // 0 Comments

Why am I still single? That is a question that plagues the minds of many single women, especially if you are 30 plus and still single (see my YouTube video here on single women over 30 who want to get married). If you are wondering “will I be single forever” or say to yourself “ I want a relationship now” the important question you need to ask yourself is “why am I still single,” because often times there is a good reason for it.  So here are my seven reasons on why you are still single. Timing and Relationships There is a reason and a season for everything, and understanding [...]

5 Ways To Tell That He Is Just Not Into You

March 9, 2017 // 0 Comments

As women, we have a tendency to ignore all of the signs that a man does not want to be in a relationship with us. We make excuses for them and try to talk ourselves into thinking that a man really wants us when they don’t.  If you are wondering if a man is into to you, you have come to the right place.  Here are my top signs, that he is not feeling you.   He says it I know that this may seem like common sense. But plenty of men will tell women I only see you as a friend I do not want a girlfriend I do not want to get married I do not want to be in a relationship right now I do not love [...]

4 Ways To Help You Maintain Celibacy

March 8, 2017 // 0 Comments

I have been celibate for a couple of years now (click here to read why). I remember becoming celibate was tugging on my heart for a long time before I actually became celibate.  And even during the course of me trying to be celibate I messed up many times.  It was not until I made up my mind that I was going to be celibate until I got married that I was able to really stick to it.  I am not virgin by any means, I do have a son.  So unless I got impregnated by the Holy Spirit it is safe to say I have had sex before. I am not going to get too much, into why I stopped having sex because I do [...]

The Best Break Up Advice I Ever Received, Was From The Movie Wyatt Earp

February 16, 2017 // 1 Comment

God can use anything to teach me a lesson. Even a movie. And it was not even a Christian movie. It was about 9 or 10 year ago when my live in boyfriend and I broke up. I really loved him, I really thought it would work, and we would be together FOREVER.  Even though our relationship had signs of being a hot mess, I still clung to hope. Sometimes we are blinded by love.  After he moved out like any twenty something year old woman.  I had trouble letting go. I would find any reason to call him or any reason to make an excuse for him to come over, even if it was at the expense of me looking [...]

5 Amazing Things To Do On Valentine’s Day When Your Single

February 3, 2017 // 8 Comments

Valentine ’s Day is coming up, you are single, and you know that you will be spending the day alone. I personally do not mind being single but when Valentine’s Day comes around it can make you feel more single then you already are.  It is the one day of the year that most single woman dread. Since you cannot stop time nor can you skip over time and prevent the day from happening. You can make the day as painless for yourself as possible.  So take these suggestions on what you can do on Valentine’s Day as a single woman. Send Yourself Something That is right. Send yourself flowers, a [...]

5 Ways To Deal With Being Single Over The Holidays

December 20, 2016 // 0 Comments

Are you single? Are you a single and know that when you come home for Christmas everyone is going to ask when where you man is or when you are going to get married? Are you dreading going home for Christmas because you know that everyone is going to be coupled up, leaving you sitting there feeling awkward and lonely? I know during the holidays it can be hard when you do not have anyone. I know that when the ball drops on News Years and everyone is kissing their boyfriends, it can be hard to watch when you are alone.  So here are my top 5 tips on how to deal with being lonely for the [...]

Say It Loud. I’m Single And I am Proud. Debunking Myths The World Gives You Why You Are Still Single.

September 27, 2016 // 0 Comments

As a single woman over 30 there are plenty of lies the world use to tell me as the reason why I am still single and not married. Your too picky At the end of the day whoever you chose to marry you are going to be stuck with them for the rest of your life unless you get a divorce. Which means that I need to be able to actually like him as a person.  I can’t afford not to be picky, that would lead me into a marriage with a person that I don’t like.  And who wants that? 2. You’re too independent, assertive, and/or arrogant. It is not in me to have low self-esteem. So the fact that you [...]

How Past Failed Relationships Can Help You In Future Relationships

August 18, 2016 // 2 Comments

If you have had past failed relationships know that they were for a reason.  Even if the past failed relationships did not work out there was something to be learned from them. So here are some of the few thing that I have learned from my past failed relationships. How To Date There are plenty of Christians that feel one should not casually date and that you should court only for the purposes of marriage (see my blog here on dating versus courting). For those who have only courted, I think that is a wonderful thing. But it is just not for me. With every date that I have been on good or bad I [...]

God is Never Going To Give You Another Woman’s Husband

August 9, 2016 // 2 Comments

Let me answer this question for you now. God is never going to give you another woman’s husband. Point blank period. There are not if’s ands or buts about it.  I do not care how in love you think you are, getting God’s blessing for you to take another woman’s husband is never going to happen.  I have written a past blog Can a Married Man Fall in Love with His Mistress? And if you are reading this blog I encourage you to go over and check that post out as well. Before we get into it, know that I am a Christian. I can only come at this topic from a Christian [...]