Dating

Relationship Deal Breakers. What They Are And How To Use Them.

May 26, 2017 // 0 Comments

A big frustration for women in relationship is when they spend too much time on a man all to realize that he is not the man for them. To avoid feeling like this, that is where your relationship deal breakers come in. Relationship deal breakers are issues that present themselves in a relationship that automatically means that you will end a relationship. For example, if you know that you cannot date someone with no job, you begin to date someone, and you find out that they do not have a job, then you should end the relationship immediately since that is one of your deal breakers. With that [...]

Important First Date Questions You Should Be Asking

March 28, 2017 // 0 Comments

First date questions are very important. It will help you determine if you want a second date or if this person is just a complete waste of your time.  Good dating advice for women is that you want to know the important stuff about a man upfront, that way you do not waste your time dating someone that is all wrong for you.  But there is a key to first date conversation, and that is that you do not want to come across drilling the person like they are in an interview.  You want the date conversation to flow naturally and in the process, you want to keep your ears open for any red flags they [...]

5 Valuable Tips For Single Christian Women

March 21, 2017 // 0 Comments

There is regular dating and then there is godly dating, and as a single Christian woman who has dated both ways, I can tell you that I want a godly relationship over just any relationship. What I am about to say isn’t just dating advice for Christian women, I think these are dating tips for women in general.  I feel the sole purpose of a relationship is for it to be a good one, who has time to sit around in a relationship that in on a road to know where. This is where Christian dating comes in, typically those who ware wanting a godly relationship are the ones who are more serious about [...]

5 Ways To Celebrate Valentine’s Day In a Way That He Will Love

February 2, 2017 // 6 Comments

Valentines Day’s is a day to celebrate your relationship and how much you love one another. Which is why I always opt for a romantic Valentine’s Day over just splurging and getting my man a Rolex or a really expensive gift that can be reserved for his birthday or Christmas.  It can be hard to try to figure out what to do for your man, boyfriend, or husband for Valentine ’s Day.  Sometimes we get busy, often times we have to work the next day. That is why I have come up with these easy ways to celebrate Valentine’s day with the man of your life that he is sure to love. Breakfast A [...]

Past Failed Relationships Can Help You Learn How To Have A Future Successful Relationship

August 18, 2016 // 2 Comments

I have been in some pretty bad relationships. But despite how terrible they were I cannot say that I regret any of them.  I may regret the way that I have acted in some of them or the fact that I stayed around too long, but I do feel that with each relationships there was a learning experience. Dating There are plenty of Christians that feel one should not casually date and that you should court only for the purposes of marriage (see my blog here on dating versus courting). For those who have only courted, I think that is a wonderful thing. But it is just not for me. With every date that I [...]

Love, Lust, or Infatuation? Which One Are You In? And Are You Able To Tell The Difference?

June 30, 2016 // 2 Comments

Are you in love, lust, and infatuation? The real question is do you know the difference between each of thing. The crazy thing about love, lust, and infatuation is that they can all resemble each other.  A person can be so infatuated with someone that it may feel like love them or have such an intense physical connection that it feels like love when in fact they just like having sex with that person. Infatuation can never love and lust can never love, they are not the same thing. You can remain on lust or infatuation for years but sooner or later the fact that you are not in love should [...]

What Men Really Want Versus What A Woman Thinks Men Really Want

June 29, 2016 // 8 Comments

Recently I spoke to a friend who feel madly in “love” with a guy. While on the first date she had an intense make out session with him and let him feel up her dress.  A few months later she was shocked to see that he had moved on to someone else and no longer wanted to deal with her. Her question to me was “What did I do wrong?” What my friend did wrong is what a lot of women do wrong. They fall into intuition with a man and then give the man what they think the man wants. Misconception: A woman feels that having sex with a man, making out with a man, or doing anything sexual with a [...]

6 Mistakes You Could Be Making On The First Date that Could Be the Reason Your Not Getting a Second Date

June 10, 2016 // 3 Comments

Are you that person that goes out on a date and then you never hear from the man again? Does this happen to you multiple times?  If so, then it may be something that you are doing on the date and not them.  I feel that when you go on a first date this is the opportunity to set the standard of what you will accept and what you will not accept.  For example. A common first date mistake is not going on a date but going to his house or letting him come to your house. That is not a date. That is a come over a chill moment.  The standard that you are setting by having these “come over and [...]

Single Woman’s Challenge Day 23: Why A Lunch Date is Better Than a Dinner Date

May 24, 2016 // 3 Comments

Today is Single Woman’s Challenge Day 23.  Click here to see all the days in the month. Today’s Challenge is. Day 23: Lunch Invite a friend to join you for lunch. You can ask a friend to lunch but that is not really that spectacular.  What is even more awesome is asking a man to lunch.  Or better yet letting a man ask you to lunch.  I do not believe in asking a man out.  Even though dinner dates are fun, lunch dates can be more fun. So here are benefits of having a lunch date over a dinner date. Deceases the likelihood that you are going to do something you will regret. When you go a [...]

Single Woman’s Challenge Day 11: 5 Tips For Successful Online Dating

May 12, 2016 // 3 Comments

Today is day 11 of the Single Christian Woman’s Challenge.  To see days for the whole month click here. Today’s Challenge is Day 11: Date Online Sign up for an online dating service like EHarmony or Christian Mingle. If you are already a member, update your profile and your pictures. I have dating online several times.  Unfortunately and fortunately, for me it is not a process that I would personally like to repeat.  However, many people find long term meaningful relationships online.  Which is why if you wish to date online there are steps that you can take to ensure your success and [...]