Relationships

Relationship Deal Breakers. What They Are And How To Use Them.

May 26, 2017 // 0 Comments

A big frustration for women in relationship is when they spend too much time on a man all to realize that he is not the man for them. To avoid feeling like this, that is where your relationship deal breakers come in. Relationship deal breakers are issues that present themselves in a relationship that automatically means that you will end a relationship. For example, if you know that you cannot date someone with no job, you begin to date someone, and you find out that they do not have a job, then you should end the relationship immediately since that is one of your deal breakers. With that [...]

Are You Ready To Get Married? Find Out Now With These 5 Reasons.

May 10, 2017 // 0 Comments

Just because you are single and you want to get married does not mean that you are ready for marriage. You can read a past blog post here on why I am not ready for marriage, but the real question that brought you to this blog post is that you want to know are you ready to get married. Therefore, I am here to answer that question for you. Waiting to get married and being ready for marriage are two different things.  The last thing you want to do is be a dysfunctional person and bring all of your crazy baggage into a marriage, which will not be help for you or the person you want to be in a [...]

5 First Date Mistakes You Could Be Making. First Date Tips For Women.

May 1, 2017 // 0 Comments

First dates are important and making first date mistakes can put you out of the running for a second date (you can click here to see other first date mistakes). Common first date mistakes for women, include that sometimes women do not know how to behave on a first date.  I am going to give you first date tips by telling you what you are doing wrong (you can also check out my blog on how to date properly). So here are 5 first date mistakes you could be making. Being Too Desperate I get that you are happy to be going on a date and that you want to have a boyfriend and get married, but do not [...]

Why Am I Still Single? Helpful Advice From a Relationship Expert

April 3, 2017 // 0 Comments

Why am I still single? That is a question that plagues the minds of many single women, especially if you are 30 plus and still single (see my YouTube video here on single women over 30 who want to get married). If you are wondering “will I be single forever” or say to yourself “ I want a relationship now” the important question you need to ask yourself is “why am I still single,” because often times there is a good reason for it.  So here are my seven reasons on why you are still single. Timing and Relationships There is a reason and a season for everything, and understanding [...]

Important First Date Questions You Should Be Asking

March 28, 2017 // 0 Comments

First date questions are very important. It will help you determine if you want a second date or if this person is just a complete waste of your time.  Good dating advice for women is that you want to know the important stuff about a man upfront, that way you do not waste your time dating someone that is all wrong for you.  But there is a key to first date conversation, and that is that you do not want to come across drilling the person like they are in an interview.  You want the date conversation to flow naturally and in the process, you want to keep your ears open for any red flags they [...]

5 Valuable Tips For Single Christian Women

March 21, 2017 // 0 Comments

There is regular dating and then there is godly dating, and as a single Christian woman who has dated both ways, I can tell you that I want a godly relationship over just any relationship. What I am about to say isn’t just dating advice for Christian women, I think these are dating tips for women in general.  I feel the sole purpose of a relationship is for it to be a good one, who has time to sit around in a relationship that in on a road to know where. This is where Christian dating comes in, typically those who ware wanting a godly relationship are the ones who are more serious about [...]

5 Conversations You Should Be Having Before You Get Engaged.

March 15, 2017 // 0 Comments

When it comes to engagements it is not like the movies, or the Bachelor, where a man just asks a woman to marry him and it is a complete and utter surprise to the woman. Granted you may not know when a man will propose or how he will propose, but you should have an indication that a proposal is where you relationship is headed. So here are 5 conversations you should have before you get engaged. Do you see this relationship moving toward an engagement It is crazy to me how many people date for an extended period of time and do not even know if their relationship will lead to an engagement. I [...]

5 Ways To Tell That He Is Just Not Into You

March 9, 2017 // 0 Comments

As women, we have a tendency to ignore all of the signs that a man does not want to be in a relationship with us. We make excuses for them and try to talk ourselves into thinking that a man really wants us when they don’t.  If you are wondering if a man is into to you, you have come to the right place.  Here are my top signs, that he is not feeling you.   He says it I know that this may seem like common sense. But plenty of men will tell women I only see you as a friend I do not want a girlfriend I do not want to get married I do not want to be in a relationship right now I do not love [...]

4 Ways To Help You Maintain Celibacy

March 8, 2017 // 0 Comments

I have been celibate for a couple of years now (click here to read why). I remember becoming celibate was tugging on my heart for a long time before I actually became celibate.  And even during the course of me trying to be celibate I messed up many times.  It was not until I made up my mind that I was going to be celibate until I got married that I was able to really stick to it.  I am not virgin by any means, I do have a son.  So unless I got impregnated by the Holy Spirit it is safe to say I have had sex before. I am not going to get too much, into why I stopped having sex because I do [...]

The Best Break Up Advice I Ever Received, Was From The Movie Wyatt Earp

February 16, 2017 // 1 Comment

God can use anything to teach me a lesson. Even a movie. And it was not even a Christian movie. It was about 9 or 10 year ago when my live in boyfriend and I broke up. I really loved him, I really thought it would work, and we would be together FOREVER.  Even though our relationship had signs of being a hot mess, I still clung to hope. Sometimes we are blinded by love.  After he moved out like any twenty something year old woman.  I had trouble letting go. I would find any reason to call him or any reason to make an excuse for him to come over, even if it was at the expense of me looking [...]