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Ciara has a new boyfriend and I think that it is great! There is something that changes in a women when she is cheated on by her ex-fiancé, who has a trunk load of kids, and baby mamas trailing after him. After going through that experience, I am sure Ciara knew that in the next relationship she was going to do something different. And here comes Russell Wilson.
You may be wondering how this new man stacks up to her ex fiancé. Well let’s see. He has more money, he is way more attractive, he does not have a boat load of baggage, and oh yes let’s not forget he has morals.
So if you have been living under a rock, both Ciara and Russell are choosing to abstain from sex until they are married. I think that this is great, for several reasons.
The first is that at least he is saying “when” we get married we will have sex. At least, he is looking into the future (no pun intended) and taking the relationship as if one day they may get to the point of being married.
The second is when you are not lusting after someone and having sex, then you really get a chance to get to know that person. I think that relationships where they do not have sex before marriage or wait for a long time before having sex; are the marriages where they really know each other. After all, since you are not having sex, the only other thing you have to do is talk to each other.
As a single mother myself, I am happy for Ciara. That she is able to get away from the dramatic rapper with too much crazy going on to a man that seems normal. One that is willing to wine her, dine her, and not try to take advantage of her body. At least you know (or we hope) that he is in it for her.
Another plus is that Russell is good with Ciara’s son. This is a huge plus that not only you want to be with someone who wants to be around your child but also someone that you child wants to be around. And as for all that nonsense that Future is talking about his son being around someone else….”boy please.”
If Ciara is going to move on and get married one day it is inevitable that her son (who lives with her) is going to be around another man. Ciara was around his other children when he was dating her. But now that the shoe is on the other foot it is a different story. As long as the woman introduces her child to the new man in her life responsibly and he is a good role model, I have no issues with it.
At the end of the day. With all the celebrity dating drama and stupidity going on, I am really glad to see this couple up the bar a little on their relationship standards and not care about what the world thinks about it. Hopefully these two work out, get married, so they can consummate their relationship.